1.
Spend time each day with confident
people.
Their
energy and inner strength is so
inspiring that you will find yourself
feeling more empowered just by listening
to them
talk. And you can get tips from
them. All you need to do is ask!
Even one good idea could point you
in a whole new direction you would
not have otherwise considered.
Nearly
all successful people have a mentor.
You too need someone who has already
done what you are working to achieve
who is willing to advise you.
This
person will help you to succeed
even more quickly than you can imagine.
Remember, two minds are better than
one.
When
you have someone who believes
in you and you have a plan you
believe in -- your confidence
will soar.
3.
Understand that confidence is only
a feeling.
Have
you ever felt confident? If you
have ever felt confident in any
situation then you can feel confident
again in the cuture. How? By re-accessing
that confident feeling.
This
is something that is worth doing
every day. Spend 15 minutes a day
reliving occasions in your life
when you felt confident. Imagine
it all in rich detail and pay very
close attention to the feelings
of confidence.After only a few days,
feeling confident will become a
good habit.
4.
List your reasons to be confident
Becoming
aware of why you can be confident
will help you get back on track.
Make a list of at least 50 reasons
why you can be confident today.
Include previous successes, your
skills and qualities, your support
network and your goals. Put down
everything that pops into your mind.
After
you have done this you will have
tapped into the power of consistency.
You will be under pressure to
be consistent with your own logic
that stated you can be confident.
5.
Make a public declaration
Tell
someone whose opinion you value
that you will be confident at
a particular event. Your desire
to impress this person will
cause you to do all that you can
to be at your very best.
And
when you demand more of yourself
you will be amazed at what you can
do. You will start finding solutions
to problems that left you stuck
and you will seek advice from people
who can help you.
6.
Preparation makes perfect
Have
you ever watched a top sportsperson
in action and wondered to yourself
at how easy she makes it look?
Or listened to your favorite music
CD and felt inspired by the talent
of the singer?
Think.
How did these superstars get to
the top? Practice, practice and
more practice. I read an article
about Pavarotti, the opera singer,
and he said he practices daily
and he still learns something
new about his voice each day!
When
you spend more time honing your
skills your confidence will soar
because you will know with certainty
that you can and will perform when
the curtain goes up.
7.
Self comparison is key
Compare
your progress in life with your
previous results. Look to the success
of others to learn and not to measure
your own success.
When
you put your focus on the daily
improvement of your own skills
and abilities you can and will
grow very quickly. And your confidence
will surge.
Confidence
without competence is a dangerous
combination. Make it easy for yourself
and only engage in Self comparison
when you are assessing your progress.
By doing this you will make it easier
to keep at it when the going gets
tough and your competence will grow
day by day.