5
Ways To Turn Obstacles Into Blessings
- Never
dwell on the cause of the obstacle.
Rise above it and change the way you
respond to it. It only has as much
power as you're willing to give it.
- Check
your attitude. Know that you have
the ability to control the outcome,
and/or to choose the answer that's
right for you.
- Think
of an alternative. If one answer doesn't
work, or if it doesn't feel right,
try another way to get to the best
solution.
- Realize
that your view of the obstacle is
what may determine how much impact
it has on your life.
- Think
about what you were doing just before
the obstacle happened. Don't make
excuses to yourself. Turn the obstacle
into a positive motivator. Then find
a way to move toward your goal.
From
"Annonymous"
Love
Your Life, Even If It Is Mean To You
Remember
that life is a one-time show, a single
show with no replays of it. So, you have
to enjoy and live every event and moment
to the fullest. Things may repeat with
slight variations in life but nothing
comes to you exactly the same as before.
Things go wrong in our lives but only
those meet the merits who does not fall
into “Perfection Paralysis”.
Perfection
Paralysis is a state where an individual
made his mind to the state of “no
mistake”. He does not accept failure.
He dreams to be a perfect superman who
cannot do any mistake. His dreams are
0% flawless and he never expects any thing
wrong with or from himself. This cannot
be attained in normal life. Isn’t
it? Here the person restricts himself
to any action and with the passage of
time he found himself falling far behind
from leaders.
No
one is perfect. Are you? I bet not. Not
me, not you; actually not any one alive
today is perfect with 0% flaws. So, assuming
things to go always right for us would
not help anyone. It would be a self-restriction
to actions. Accept failures in life. You
can do mistakes. Things may go wrong with
you. There is nothing you get exactly
the same as you dreamed of. Accept minor
to major changes as to perceive things.
And believe in one thing you are not the
only one who is going through difficult
time.
There
are several hundred thousands other human
beings who are in worse condition than
you. Feel great when you are tested. Because
you are been selected as you can pass
that test. This is perhaps the best answer
to the question “why only me?”
World
or life is never cruel to us, we allow
it to harm ourselves. Because we all respond
to our over governed thoughts of that
time not the reality. Things are far different
what we perceive in times of pressure
and difficulty. In relaxed state of mind
we can understand far better than stress
times. Things are not usually so big but
we make them. It is just the angle from
which we see things that make them big
or small, easy or difficult.
When
time or situation turns to the worse,
thank God. Seem ridiculous but it’s
worth. As there is always shiny sunny
day at the end of each dark and scary
night. When things go out of control,
apply the basics. Stop the ball, which
comes to you and leave the ball, which
is delivered away from you. Time will
roll on and there would a time when you
will see that the sparkling sunshine is
very near to you.
Love
your life even it is mean to you. Luck
favors the brave and you would be surprised
with the results after practicing what
has written above. I have tried many times
this and have gained success. So, why
don’t you.
by
Haris Tabassum
The
Blinking Light Of Humanity
A
candle in the windy night,
The sprinkle of its meager light,
Hold on tremulously to life.
The winds cut them through like a knife.
Gallows,
graveyards, dungeons’ round.
Wheezing, scary spooks surround.
If ever the candle’s twinkle found,
They’ll come after, hunter bloodhounds!
Grayish
clouds above, in meeting
Conspiring, a moment seeking
To part the curtains, let the rain
Crush the light, with its bullet train.
Why
the candle lives, I wonder?
How is it, there’s no surrender?
Has its wick some link Divine
With God’s own eternal Shine?
by
Sadat Jabeen
