Winning
Attitude Is Evrey Thing
Use The Right Words
Use statements like, 'I have a positive
attitude,' or 'We'll find a solution,'
in daily conversation. The words you use
on a daily basis have a major impact on
your attitude and moods.
Strive
For Optimism
I have spoken with many people who see
being a pessimist or an optimist as a
50/50 chance, believing one is just as
good as the other. That is a trap! Having
a positive attitude is something you should
strive for. It isn't something you are
or are not, it is something you can become.
What
Company Do you Keep ?
Do your friends have negative attitudes?
Does it rub off on you? Many times the
company we keep can affect our attitudes.
If your group at work or at home negatively
affects your attitude, take the necessary
steps to change the situation.
When
You Know You Need A Change
When you know you aren't happy, admit
it to yourself and take action to reverse
it. This is a very difficult thing to
do, especially when you aren't in the
mood to admit things to yourself. It may
be hard, but it is worth it. When you
are being negative, realize it and change
it.
Listen
To What Other Say
We may like to tell ourselves that we
are positive people, but it's not always
true. Listen to what your friends and
family say about your attitude. They may
say things that you don't want to hear,
but sometimes the best changes in life
come from constructive criticism.
Learn
What Makes You Tick ?
When you know what makes you upset, you
will be able to avoid these situations
and save yourself the tension and frustration
they bring. If it is a situation that
you cannot avoid, learn how to make the
best of it.
What
Makes You Happy ?
This is vital to your attitude and mood.
Your 'happy' buttons will serve to improve
your attitude again and again. When I'm
not in a good mood, I first ask myself
if I have eaten that day. More often than
not, after getting food into my system
my attitude does a complete 180 degree
turnaround.
GIve
Your Self A Break
Give yourself a quick time out now and
then when you are becoming stressed or
upset. Often a short break can help you
to put things in perspective and return
to the situation with a positive demeanor.
Think
Twice Before You Act Once
Before you act, think about what your
action with cause. If an employee does
something wrong that negatively affects
you, don't attack. Think about the best
response. Only after you have done this
twice should you take action.
React
VS Respond
These two words are the difference between
a happy, enthusiastic, positive person
and a sad, frustrated, negative person.
When anything happens in life that affects
you, both directly and indirectly, respond
to the situation. This means you think
about it, use reason to find a solution,
and take the appropriate measures. When
you react, you skip the reasoning stage
and do what comes naturally in the moment.
This only serves to cause more problems
and frustration. Respond, do not react.
Appriciate
The Things You Have
Look around you and learn to appreciate
everything you have in your life. Your
friends, family, career, home, etc. This
is enough to create a positive attitude
because no matter how bad things get in
life, we still must be thankful for everything
we still have. Put things into perspective,
and enjoy the good things in your life..
You
Don't Always Have To Be Happy
Being in a down mood is okay, sometimes.
You don't always have to be upbeat, excited,
and outgoing. This could lead to burnout
or a blow-up. There are days when things
aren't going right, or we just feel a
little out of it. These days are okay,
and the problems will pass.
Think
About It
Look at problems logically. When you let
emotion take over, you may do things that
made sense at the time but in the end
weren't the best choices.
Don't
Join The Gossip
Don't join in on the negative conversations
around you. If you see a conversation
heading towards that road, excuse yourself
politely and leave.
Start
In The Right Direction
Wake up with a smile and with energy.
You have a lot to accomplish and enjoy
today. Life is short, and you are going
to make the most of this day, and every
day after that.
Extracted
From "Motivational Idea Kit of www.123motivation.com"
Getting
Everyone On Board
Communication
is key to a healthy, thriving organization.
Yours is no different. Regardless of the
size or stature of your workforce, there
must be a clear and constant stream of
communication between all employees and
their supervisors.
The
problem with many companies today is a
lack of one vision, one direction. In
one business you may find that the employees
each have their own direction they are
following and it most likely won't match
up with management's.
When
you have a business being pulled in many
different directions, only problems, frustration,
and failure can result. But there is a
simply and easy way to escape this trap.
Communicate.
Simply
talking isn't enough. Your people must
see the picture you have in your mind.
You must find ways, many different ways,
to get them on board, to help them see
the future as you see it. You could: ·
Gather
your employees together for a Vision speech
·
Post major goals or objectives around
the office and work areas ·
Communicate the company's aim through
a clearly defined mission statement ·
Send weekly memos keeping people on track
·
Lead by example - believe in what you
say, and act the part
These
are just a few of the ways you can clearly
communicate your vision to the people
who work for you. Your employees are looking
for a leader. They respect and respond
to a manager or CEO who knows where he
and his company is heading, and gets the
workers on board with him for the ride.
The
other, and equally important, side of
this equation is maintaining that vision
and direction. It is on your shoulders
to keep your people heading forward, together.
If stragglers appear, you must attend
to them. Do what is necessary to keep
the group together.
With
everyone 'on board' you will find that
the destinations you set for your team
will be met with speed, precision, and
success.
by
Jason Gracia
Time
Management Tips
- Create
Daily List
- List
Goals & Set Priorities. A,B,C
- Do
A's First.
- Handle
Each Piece Of Paper Only Once.
- Do
It Now !
- What
Is The Best Use Of My Time Right Now
?