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SEPTEMBER 2003 EDITION


Winning Attitude Is Evrey Thing


Use The Right Words
Use statements like, 'I have a positive attitude,' or 'We'll find a solution,' in daily conversation. The words you use on a daily basis have a major impact on your attitude and moods.

Strive For Optimism
I have spoken with many people who see being a pessimist or an optimist as a 50/50 chance, believing one is just as good as the other. That is a trap! Having a positive attitude is something you should strive for. It isn't something you are or are not, it is something you can become.

What Company Do you Keep ?
Do your friends have negative attitudes? Does it rub off on you? Many times the company we keep can affect our attitudes. If your group at work or at home negatively affects your attitude, take the necessary steps to change the situation.

When You Know You Need A Change
When you know you aren't happy, admit it to yourself and take action to reverse it. This is a very difficult thing to do, especially when you aren't in the mood to admit things to yourself. It may be hard, but it is worth it. When you are being negative, realize it and change it.

Listen To What Other Say
We may like to tell ourselves that we are positive people, but it's not always true. Listen to what your friends and family say about your attitude. They may say things that you don't want to hear, but sometimes the best changes in life come from constructive criticism.

Learn What Makes You Tick ?
When you know what makes you upset, you will be able to avoid these situations and save yourself the tension and frustration they bring. If it is a situation that you cannot avoid, learn how to make the best of it.

What Makes You Happy ?
This is vital to your attitude and mood. Your 'happy' buttons will serve to improve your attitude again and again. When I'm not in a good mood, I first ask myself if I have eaten that day. More often than not, after getting food into my system my attitude does a complete 180 degree turnaround.

GIve Your Self A Break
Give yourself a quick time out now and then when you are becoming stressed or upset. Often a short break can help you to put things in perspective and return to the situation with a positive demeanor.

Think Twice Before You Act Once
Before you act, think about what your action with cause. If an employee does something wrong that negatively affects you, don't attack. Think about the best response. Only after you have done this twice should you take action.

React VS Respond
These two words are the difference between a happy, enthusiastic, positive person and a sad, frustrated, negative person. When anything happens in life that affects you, both directly and indirectly, respond to the situation. This means you think about it, use reason to find a solution, and take the appropriate measures. When you react, you skip the reasoning stage and do what comes naturally in the moment. This only serves to cause more problems and frustration. Respond, do not react.

Appriciate The Things You Have
Look around you and learn to appreciate everything you have in your life. Your friends, family, career, home, etc. This is enough to create a positive attitude because no matter how bad things get in life, we still must be thankful for everything we still have. Put things into perspective, and enjoy the good things in your life..

You Don't Always Have To Be Happy
Being in a down mood is okay, sometimes. You don't always have to be upbeat, excited, and outgoing. This could lead to burnout or a blow-up. There are days when things aren't going right, or we just feel a little out of it. These days are okay, and the problems will pass.

Think About It
Look at problems logically. When you let emotion take over, you may do things that made sense at the time but in the end weren't the best choices.

Don't Join The Gossip
Don't join in on the negative conversations around you. If you see a conversation heading towards that road, excuse yourself politely and leave.

Start In The Right Direction
Wake up with a smile and with energy. You have a lot to accomplish and enjoy today. Life is short, and you are going to make the most of this day, and every day after that.

Extracted From "Motivational Idea Kit of www.123motivation.com"

 

Getting Everyone On Board

Communication is key to a healthy, thriving organization. Yours is no different. Regardless of the size or stature of your workforce, there must be a clear and constant stream of communication between all employees and their supervisors.

The problem with many companies today is a lack of one vision, one direction. In one business you may find that the employees each have their own direction they are following and it most likely won't match up with management's.

When you have a business being pulled in many different directions, only problems, frustration, and failure can result. But there is a simply and easy way to escape this trap. Communicate.

Simply talking isn't enough. Your people must see the picture you have in your mind. You must find ways, many different ways, to get them on board, to help them see the future as you see it. You could: ·

Gather your employees together for a Vision speech ·
Post major goals or objectives around the office and work areas ·
Communicate the company's aim through a clearly defined mission statement ·
Send weekly memos keeping people on track ·
Lead by example - believe in what you say, and act the part

These are just a few of the ways you can clearly communicate your vision to the people who work for you. Your employees are looking for a leader. They respect and respond to a manager or CEO who knows where he and his company is heading, and gets the workers on board with him for the ride.

The other, and equally important, side of this equation is maintaining that vision and direction. It is on your shoulders to keep your people heading forward, together. If stragglers appear, you must attend to them. Do what is necessary to keep the group together.

With everyone 'on board' you will find that the destinations you set for your team will be met with speed, precision, and success.

by Jason Gracia

 

Time Management Tips

  • Create Daily List
  • List Goals & Set Priorities. A,B,C
  • Do A's First.
  • Handle Each Piece Of Paper Only Once.
  • Do It Now !
  • What Is The Best Use Of My Time Right Now ?

 

 

 

 

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